American actress and comedian Chelsea handler,shared past experience about the effect of jealousy, serving as a message to all women.
Not long after beginning to pursue her career,she was invited to a comedic improved showase, to perform for a prospective agency to represent her.Excited as other person would be,like a dream come true,she invited her fellow comedian and friend to join her,cause her 5years experience with her have made handler quite confident to mount the stage,and give all she could,all to impress the seated agents.
After handler and her friend performed, handler got a call from her friend that she has been contracted by the comedic agency, just few hours after the show case.This made handler furious and jealous.She spoke about her reaction.
"I hated the way that i felt,that i was jealous. How could she get something that i didn't? It wasn't fair because i was the one who had convinced her to do the stand-up in the first place."
Her anger and jealousy aggravated, until she spoke with her sister,who advised that she should see it as an experience to learn from.She told handler.
"You just can't ever act on jealousy.What you have,no one else has,so there will be a place for you.Don't think that because someone got something, you are not going to get something else.There is room for everybody."
Handler reminded every one that it is okay to feel jealous so long you do not act on that feeling.
"There is always a space for you,because there is no one that's exactly like you."
What an experience to learn from!
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