Most families are divided,divorce have been an everyday story,this is as a result of lack of love and respect by either the wife or the husband.But for now i want to put husbands through as to how they can earn the love and respect of their family.
One thing you should know is that you can't force your family members to love and respect you,all you do is to display admirable attitude so as to earn this love and respect.
I'll start by advicing that out of no time,you should make out time for your family member.Time to talk,time to recreate, time to be attentive to their feelings and wants.
Secondly, you want to be a good speaker.You want to be kind in words.The way you express yourself tells the kind of father and husband you are.How do you respond if your children or your spouse step on tourw toes? Try to be the good husband you want to be by being mild in speech.
You should discipline lovingly. Do not be harsh,when you make use of a cane for your kids,tell them later why they were beaten and encourage them not to repeat it.If your wife do you wrong,well you shouldn't flog her like a kid,a kind word of correction will be better. Always commend both your wife and your kids when they do things you so much appreciate.
Love dearly your spouse and respect her,when you do this,you earn her love and respect as well as that of your children.
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