When relationship is no longer in good shape,what can be done?

"What's happening, i remember when i use to have an admirable relationship, i and freya usually get along,what's happening? "......John.

Like john,some of us at one time enjoyed the fun and happiness true love brings, but all of a sudden,things seems not to work out anymore. What's wrong? You may ask.

Rather than quit the relationship at once,why not consider reforming or rebuilding your relationship,and try to bring back what was lost.

Before than can be achieved, try to think about what contributed to the cold relationship.Could it be that the bridge of regular communication is broken,or could it be that you both find it hard to settle dispute.Or maybe you both are too busy that you do not have the time for each other.After meditating deeply about the crack in your relationship, take down these advice to mend it.

One basic step is to plan a special date.Talk things out with your lover.Talk about how happy you both were before things changed,remind him or her about beautiful moments you both enjoyed,and do tell him or her that you want that happiness back.

It is possible that you will both agree to turn the other side of the page,therefore action is required.Be positive to whatever decision you've both made. 3 things can help.

-Regular communication.
-Show concern.
-Create time for each other.

You do not need to have a blank relationship. Sometimes,childs play can promote love.Have you tried painting each other,sprinkling water,tickling each other,playing games together watching movies together and so on,can really spice your relationship,and can make it more enjoyable. When it comes to making peace,do it quickly. Talk things out camly and learn to always apologize.